Tips in finding Good Babysitter aka nanny

Working mums!!

What criteria do u look in terms of finding a good babysitter?or u prefer send the beloved ones to the normal daycare?Some parent with good $$$, they can easily hire a maid or wiith no budget at all for daycare and babysitter they just transport their child to the parents house.


Here i just want to share my own criteria when choosing a babysitter for azryl.I started to look for a babysitter when i was still in confinement period.Even i took extra 1 week annual leave to make sure Azryl is pysically and mentally prepared when i sent him to the babysitter.That one week is crucial as i can closely look and made adjustment or change babysitter if i felt azryl not comfortable with the babysitter.

ok here is my terms and conditions when i searced the nanny:

1.Experience
(Most of the babysitter were fullyhousewives,yes indeed they got experienced in handling their own child but taking care of other people children was totally different.Each parents had their own expectations)

2.Not too old or not too young.
(Hmm .....maksud tua disini is tak terlalu berumur sangatla cam 55-ish ke atas tu as jaga budak kecik ni perlu tenaga lebih.Kena pantas bergerak.dekat rumah i , ade this nenek.Dia jaga 2 orang budak kecik je.dua-dua dalam 7 or 8 bulan macam tu.But disebelah petang and malam ajar budak besar mengaji plak.macam mana tuh?Babies need full attention.this one i reject.


3.Environtment
(I bukan ajar jadik bzz body wokeh darl but cube jadi a little bit cautious and observe betul-betul keadaan rumah dia.Tengok anak-anak lain yang dia jaga.selekehkah?lantai berhabukkah?Pandang sekali imbas.Kalu other kids yang dia jaga tu bersih, taka de air mata, happy jer, and lantai rumah dia berkilat..ok la tu.Tanya la jugak, selain jaga budak ni ade buat kerja lain ke,Coz certain babysitter ade yang amik tempahan kuih la amik anak sekolah la..abih tu jaga anak orang lain macam mana?Tell u this horrible story,adela this one babysitter dekat rumah i,dia tinggalkan anak yang dia jaga kat rumah untuk ambil anak sendiri dari sekolah.Alone!!!The worst part baby yang dia jaga tu baru 4 bulan.Bahaya ok?Depa nak duit dari kita of course la depan kite senyum manis je..huhuhu.

Lagi satu observe ade banyak tak buai tinggalan ke atau barang barang baby yang dah leftover..Bukannye ape semua itu maybe barang barang budak yang dia pernah jaga.Ask your self awat banyak sangat..something fishy must happened kan?The reason why This happened to my sister's friend.dia dah jadi OKU gara-gara his previous babysitter.Mak dia hantar babysitter hari pertama ok.Hari kedua dia terkejut anak dia macam tepung gomak dibedakkan oleh bbsitter.Mak dia happyla tengok.Rahsia terbongkar bila makdia nak breastfeed , air susu meleleh keluar dari mulut.Hati mak ni rasa ade sesuatu tak kena sapu segala bedak, tengok-tengok tudia anak dia nyer mulut cam senget.!!banyak lebam!!Masuk ICU anak dia okeh!!Bila tanya baby sitter tu ape jadi.Jawapan standard TAK TAHU!!.Nak buat report polis , Paed tu advise tak payah sangat as the baby was considered ok lagi as dia sendiri kena naik turun mahkahmah for 4 CASES regarding babysitter.Mengucap panjang i dengar.


4.Spotcheck
I suggest mummie kena amik one day leave tu just buat spotcheck on your baby once a while.Dont ever tell your babysitter that u cuti that day.Just tengok dari jauh...Bukannya ape.kekadang depa ni selalu bertandang kat rumah orang.Anak kita pun diangkut sama.Haish.....Ape ape jadi kat atas jalan kompom dia kata tak tahu.


*A reminder disini i am person who is tak kisah how much i have to pay to babysit my baby.I just want her to know that my son is precious.Name what you need as long as u take good care of my son.Sebolehnya i tak nak babysitter azryl banyak kerja sangat bila handle dia.I makesure diapers azryl already changed waktu hantar, dia dah tukar baju tak pakai baju tido and i paid her on time meaning i tak tunggu hujung bulan baru bayar.


*sewaktu dlm search mode, macam macam fiil babysitter i jumpa and alhamdullilah i jumpa this akak.She is 35 years old.Energetic woman And friendly as well.She loves children .Bila mana i amik azryl tak pernah i tengok ade merah kat punggung azryl,and azryl looks happy whenever i sent him to akak babysitternya.Whenever in each month i balik lambat meaning azryl got to stay longer in the babysitter house , i paid her extra.its due to the time consuming while jaga azryl.Yela to show your appreciation as well.Dengan harapan dia jaga anak kita elok-elok.tul tak?
Walaupun kedang dia suke bagi tahu last minute kalu dia ade hal..i still buleh consider dia a good babysitterla.

so mommies?how bout yours??