Monday, August 30, 2010
I was miserable since last weekend till now.I guessed when u became a mom your life changed totally 100%.huhuhuhu.Anyway I managed to fast till now.Alhamdullilah....
Thestory i am about to tell is I have been dreaming that i am pregnant again!!!OMG, scary and at the same time i am happy.But it was only a dream after all.I miss my preggiehood.Its beautiful.But i cant neglect my prince as well.I think he deserved 100% of my attention .Futhermore my c-sect wound need to heal first.Dont be hasty dear lin.hehehehe.
Day by day Azryl is slowly leaving his babyhood life and soon to enter a toddlerhood life...sob...sob...How i wish i can still hold him ..thight in my arms always..
P/s: Baju kurungku tak dibeli lagi...hehehe.Happy fasting peeps!!
Friday, August 27, 2010
People come into your life for a Reason.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is,you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant .
Thursday, August 26, 2010
I managed to find dibo's doll when i went to sogo last weekend.Azryl punyala excited.hehehehe.Not just Azyl yang excited mummy nyer sekali kay!!!Bila mana show dibo nak start azryl and mummy mesti stand by depan tv.Below is azryl Picca wif his best friend. :)
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
I came across this article in yahoo about fruits and food that make u ease a bit your tension.Jangan tensi-tensi wokeh tho i know that festive season is just around the corner.hehehe.Mana nak pikir baju anak lagi, budget balik kampung lagi,budget after raya lagi,duit raya,and bla..bla..bla...As usual kalu yang kerja gomen tuh maybe la kot ade insentif sebelum raya ni but seldom i dengar private company bagi insentif sempena raya kita ni.I pun tak terkecuali..sob...sob....
Okehla kengkwan mohla kita check apekah makanan yang membulehkan kita stress free?]
Menurut Mr David Zinczenko kita harusla makan:
Wouldn’t it be awesome if there was a magic nutrient that could stop the flow of stress hormones—the very hormones that make your body superefficient at storing fat calories? Wouldn’t you want to gobble that food up like crazy, especially if it tasted great? Half a medium papaya carries nearly 75 percent more vitamin C than an orange, and provides potent protection against stress. Researchers at the University of Alabama found 200 milligrams of vitamin C—about as much as you’ll find in one large papaya—twice a day nearly stopped the flow of stress hormones in rats. It should work for you, too.
The mere scent of peppermint helps you focus and boosts performance, according to researchers. Another study discovered that peppermint tea makes drivers more alert and less anxious.
Other smart sources of peppermint: Peppermint candy and peppermint oil
Other smart sources of vitamin C: Red bell peppers, broccoli, oranges
Pumpkin seeds are loaded with stress-busting potential thanks to high levels of magnesium. Only about 30 percent of us meet our daily magnesium requirements, placing the rest of us at a higher risk for stress symptoms such as headaches, anxiety, tension, fatigue, insomnia, nervousness and high blood pressure. (Basically we’re frayed wires, and magnesium is the electrical tape that can pull us back together.) A quarter cup of pumpkin seeds gives you half your day’s magnesium requirements.
Other smart sources of magnesium: Spinach, Swiss chard, black beans, soybeans, salmon
Dan lain lain contohnya avocado, Almond and dates.........hehehe
If u want to know more klik here.
Till then love happy fasting!!
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
marilah kita sama-sama sedekahkan Alfatihah buat anak-anak Syurga ini ini.Hari ini genapla Alanna Qish berusia setahun..sayangnya Allah lebih menyayanginya...Manakala bagi kanak-kanak bernama akmal haris ini yang mana ceritanya disiarkan di akhbar kerana terjatuh buaian 5 tahun dulu telah tamat penderitaannya semalam ...dimana dia telah dijemput oleh Ilahi...
Disebabkan kecederaan teruk dialaminya sewaktu bayi dahulu 15 kali pembedahan telah pun dijalaninya..namun ibu-bapanya tetap tabah dalam menghadapi situasi sedemikian..hancur hati mereka hanya mereka yang tahu...
Marilah kita sama-sama mengambil ikhtibar diatas kejadian ini.Ini juga bertujuan untuk mengingatkan diri saya sendiri bahawa sentiasalah mengingati-Nya,Hanya Dia saja mengetahui apa yang berlaku selepas ini di dalam hidup kita, Doa merupakan senjata kita,Moga-moga kita sekeluarga dilimpahi rahmat oleh Yang Kuasa....Amin...
Monday, August 23, 2010
Hi Mommies !!How's Everyone?sihat semuanya?Mummy-mummy Pose tak ari ni?hehehe, kite pun pose jugak.
(Macam kanak-kanak ribena...maafkan ku kerana agak 'weng' di pagi hari dek kerana penat yang tak terhingga)
Ok , I just want to tell everybody that azryl managed to undergo his vaccination with smooth and easy, tho he was a bit shaky but he took it pretty well.Good boy.
He seemed to love his Paed so much .Before he was given the vaccination he laugh and laugh without stop.hehehe.
Overall he is now 71 cm with 9.8 kg body weight(Oh my....)..I thought he might be overweight but as usual the Dr will say no.He just have big frame.Blame the daddy.Coz Azryl Daddy pretty big and tall.
So we going to meet his Paed again for the next two month.(what a relief....)
Okie dokie, here i will attach two video of the crime scene where azryl keep laughing untill the dr jab him.Enjoy!!
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Do u take any vitamins or additional supplement during fasting month?Well i don't take anything else except rice, lotsa plain water, dates and during sahur i took a table spoonful of pure honey...
Bzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz...buzzing bee honey. :)
It kept me well energized till break fasting time.It was super amazing!!.As u knew we woke up quiet early for sahur and i woke up as early as 4 a.m.I helped my mum in the kitchen, prepared my son need to the babysitter and drive to work at 6 .10 a.m.Very tiring, and mind u i felt so sleepy trough out the journey to the office.It took approximately 1 and half hours to reached there.Oh my....
But say no more to the sleepyhead.I am fit to fast while breastfeed. :).So i suggest mommies yang terasa penat or letih because of rushing here and there should try to take honey... :)
Happy Fasting U olls.. muah!!
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Ok tak elok amalkan sikap ni wokeh as kita baru berpuasa 7 hari.Patut perbanyakkan amal dan ibadat.Tapi sesungguhnya...seorang ibu ni terlalu excited sangat nak-nak dengan kehadiran sang putera pengubat jiwa,tahun ni kalau dipanjangkan umur insyaallah dapatla beraya bersama sang putera dan maharaja.hehehe.
I received Azryl jubah from Liz OThman yesterday!!Same jubah for Lil Auf , Yaya's Preceious son.hehehe.As i memang suka bangat dengan kualiti kain and jahitannya.Mantap wokeh.Kepada Mommies-mommies di luar sana yang nak menempah baju raya untuk permata hati tahun depan i memang rekomen liz...She's know what she's doing.Tak akan keciwa punya.Berbaloi-baloi..heheeh.Oh untuk tahun ni punya order dah closed for raya.Lepas raya on balik.Not just baju kurung but ade macam macam lagi baju for girls especially.Klu mak ade anak pompuan lamo dah mak borong.hehehehe.For boys pun ade jugak...cuma liz tak sempat mengupload lagi gambo di blognyer.
I managed to try the jubah on my son, walau yehhhh lengchai anak mak!!..but tak sempat nak snap picture coz my phone tak ade disisi.Nak dekat raya nanti i upload the picture.Sesi mempamer baju raya omaknya azryl dan anaknye sekalilah.hehehe .
Ok here is a sneak peak on Azryl jubah. :)..till then mummies, happy fastin yer semua..love u olls..
Monday, August 16, 2010
Friday, August 13, 2010
During Ramadhan i already pump once at the office because i go back as early as 4 pm.On normal working days i will pump twice.Once in the morning around 10 a.m , the cesond pumping session will be on 4 pm.
first day: 3 oz
second day:4.5 oz
third day:4 oz.
To me ok la kot.As my boy pun dah makan,so i wont be worried so much tho dia still minum fm jugak.huhuhuhu.
In order to get that amount , i guessed my belly nearly explode with water,force myself to eat kurma(i hate kurma, sorry..),and without fail berbuka and bersahur minum milo and makan nasi.See macam mano nak kurus nih?hehehehe.Anyway wish me luck!!hope i can made it till the end of ramadhan.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Happy birthday to u,
happy birthday to u,
u are born in the zoo ,
with a monkey and kangaroo.
No la baby u were born in HKL la lalink.Anyway see how fast time fly?Mummy still remember how very innocent the look on your face after freshly out from my tummy.U totally have no idea where were u till one of the nurse spank your butt to make u cry.heheheh,Anyway baby congratulations, u made it so far...tho your journey after all still milestone away..
Anyway my prince still has no sign of crawling...sit?oho i only can dream about it.Most probably i pampered him so much till he kind of lazy to do the explorer job.But he sure giggle alot.
Ok lets see what we should expect when our precious reach 6 months old:
Your Social 6-Month-Old
These days, your baby revels in her social-butterfly status. So take advantage of it. Expose baby to a variety of people during social outings; teach him to say "hi" and wave good-bye. While you're out and about, your baby will recognize his own name if it's called, and he'll turn to whoever calls it. When he wants to be picked up, baby will use not only her voice, but gestures like raised arms–and from a proud sitting position, no less. When you do pick baby up, be prepared for squeals of delight. (I noticed the prince will jump abit to make me carry him.Bless him 9 kilos baby is not that easy to carry wokeh?)
Milestones this month*
- Your baby now can sit on her own. (not yet)
- He rocks and pivots while lying on her stomach. (i do noticed it sometimes)
- Baby can roll from her back onto her stomach–and back again. (yes its true)
- He digs her fingers and toes into the floor to push herself toward a favorite toy. (err not yet)
- Baby can eat a cracker. (haven't expose to him yet)
- He can pick up a cereal ring or other small object. (no)
- Baby has more than doubled her birth weight. (true)
- He can say vowel-consonant combinations. (bu ba, does it counts?)
- Baby expresses unhappiness when an object or toy is taken away. (sometimes)
objects from one hand to another.
- Baby looks for dropped toys. (true)
iscovered herself in the mirror, and loves having conversations with this new little friend.
All babies have their own internal developmental timetable. If your 6-month-old hasn't yet reached these milestones, rest assured that she will in time. If you have concerns about your baby's development, discuss them with her doctor.
Sit up and take notice This is the month most likely to see your baby sit on his own and gain a whole new perspective on the world around him.
Once the teetering ends, baby will be able to reach for toys and play with them with perfect balance. If you're concerned that your baby isn't sitting up yet, keep in mind that some babies are closer to 9 months old before they master this skill. "Practice sessions" for sitting are helpful: Sitting on the floor, prop your baby up in the v-shape of your extended legs to help her get accustomed to this new position. And if your baby is still a bit on the chubby side, remember that it may be more difficult for himto keep his balance right now.
Lastly but not least, here is the picas when Azryl was 5 months and 6 days(yesterday).heheeh
Please ignore the mummy's super tired face.
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
My son pun excited nak berpuasa agaknya as he wake up at 4 am.OMG,i thought i can have short nap after sahur but i cant as his eyes were wide open and keep mumbling, shouting , spraying,all the time.Plus he loves to roll.So here i am with zombie eyes in the office.I hope i can survive till this evening.
Seriously i need a massage or foot bath ..especially with warm milk or water...So tempting...grrrrrr.
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Why in islamic calendar during ramadhan all muslims must fast?what is the significant and wisdom behind it?According to Dr Arafat , refer here,
- It teaches man the principle of sincere Love: because when he observes Fasting he does it out of deep love for God. And the man who loves God truly is a man who really knows what love is.
- It equips man with a creative sense of hope and an optimistic outlook on life; because when he fasts he is hoping to please God and is seeking His Grace.
- It imbues in man the genuine virtue of effective devotion, honest dedication and closeness to God; because when he fasts he does so for God and for His sake alone.
- It cultivates in man a vigilant and sound conscience; because the fasting person keeps his fast in secret as well as in public. In fasting, especially, there is no mundane authority to check man's behavior or compel him to observe fasting. He keeps it to please God and satisfy his own conscience by being faithful in secret and in public. There is no better way to cultivate a sound conscience in man.
- It indoctrinates man in patience and selflessness, as through fasting, he feels the pains of deprivation but he endures them patiently.
- It is an effective lesson in applied moderation and willpower.
- Fasting also provides man with a transparent soul, a clear mind and a light body.
It shows man a new way of wise savings and sound budgeting.
- It enables man to master the art of Mature Adaptability. We can easily understand the point once we realize that fasting makes man change the entire course of his daily life.
It grounds man in discipline and healthy survival.
- It originates in man the real spirit of social belonging, unity and brotherhood, of equality before God as well as before the law.
Who is eligible to fast or must fast?
Every man and woman who is fit under this terms and conditions:
- To be mentally and physically fit, which means to be sane and able.
- To be of full age, the age of puberty and discretion, which is normally about fourteen.
- Children under this age should be encouraged to start this good practice on easy levels, so when they reach the age of puberty they will be mentally and physically prepared to observe fasting.
- To be present at one's permanent settlement, your home town, one's farm, and one's business premises, etc. This means not to be on a journey of about fifty miles or more.
- To be fairly certain that fasting is unlikely to cause you any harm, physical or mental, other than the normal reactions to hunger, thirst, etc.
Exemption From Fasting:
- These said qualifications exclude the following categories:
- Children under the age of puberty and discretion.
Insane people who are unaccountable for their deeds. People of these two categories are exempted from the duty of fist, and no compensation or any other substitute is enjoined on them.
- Men and women who are too old and feeble to undertake the obligation of fast and bear its hardships. Such people are exempted from this duty, but they must offer, at least, one needy poor Muslim an average full meal or its value per person per day.
- Sick people whose health is likely to be severely affected by the observance of fast. They may postpone the fast, as long as they are sick, to a later date and make up for it, a day for a day.
- Travelers may break the fast temporarily during their travel only and make up for it in later days, a day for a day
- Pregnant women and women breast-feeding their children may also break the fast, if its observance is likely to endanger their own health or that of their infants. But they must make up for the fast at a delayed time, a day for a day.
- Women in the -period of menstruation (of a maximum of ten days or of confinement (of a maximum of forty days).; They must postpone the fast till recovery and then make up for it, a day for a day.
- It should be understood that here, like in all other Islamic undertakings, the intention must be made clear that this action is undertaken in obedience to God, in response to His command and out of love of Him.
- The fast of any day of Ramadan becomes void by intentional eating or drinking or smoking or indulgence in any intimate intercourse, and by allowing anything to enter through the mouth into the interior parts of the body. And if this is done deliberately without any lawful reason, this is a major sin which only renewed repentance can expiate.
If anyone, through forgetfulness, does something that would ordinarily break the fast, 0a observance is not nullified, and his fast stands valid, provided he stops doing that thing the moment he realizes what he is doing.
On completion of Ramadhan,all muslims must pay a few ringgit known as zakat fitrah before first day eidul fitri ends.
Tabahla sayang kerana ketabahanmu menjadi nadi kekuatan ibumu untuk terus berjuang
Tak kala umat islam bergembira menyambut kedatangan bulan yang penuh berkat ini, rayyan terlantar di katil hospital melalui satu lagi siri pembedahan kepala...
Ya tuhan, ku sebagai ibu juga tidak tahan melihat puteraku sakit walaupun dia hanya demam biasa namun anak ini?mempunyai ibu yang sungguh kental jiwanya bertarung untuk menyelamatkan anaknya...Kasihankan ibu rayyan tuhan..Sembuhkanla putera kecil ini daripada penyakitnya..
Sempena kedatangan Ramadhan ini ku memohon kepada seluruh pembaca blog ku untuk berdoa buat adik rayyan semoga dia cepat sembuh, semoga masih ada sinar didalam senyumannya, semoga dia kembali ceria bersama kedua ibu-bapanya...amin
Buat kawan kawan maya ku , jikalau anda sekalian ingin mengetahui cerita selebihnya, lawatla blog ibu yang mempunyai jiwa yang kental ni di kernakasihkita
Monday, August 9, 2010
Antaranya ialah Ibadah Puasa,telah banyak blog ibu menyusu kulawati, rata-ratanya mengatakan mereka tidak mempunyai masalh sewaktu dibulan puasa,tapi pemakanan haruslah dijaga..agar susu yang badan kita hasilkan berkualiti....
Ku amat pasti bahawa bilangan gelas air kosong adalah harus melebihi 6 gelas..abc ka,lai chi kang ka, tolak tepi dulu..(sob...sob...)kurma adalah wajib, susu juga sama(nampaknya kena consider susu anmum semula).Nasi?oho..itu juga adalah menu wajib.Kalu buleh isi lagi perut tu , silalah ambil oats...
Last sekali mintak banyak banyak kat yang MAHA Pencipta, segalanya dibawah Ketentuannya...
Minta diberi kekuatan untuk menhan segala cabaran semasa dalam proses membekalkan anak yang disayangi dengan susu badan kita sendiri.Ku bukan nya taksub dengan anugerah ini.Hasilku tidakla semasyuk ibu -ibu yang penuh freezernya dengan susu,biarpun cukup makan namun ku puas dengan dapat memberikan anakku susu badanku walaupun hanya 3-4oz sahaja...
**Ku amat sedih dengan satu pernyataan rakan blogger lain.Ade pernyataan yang agak kasar bagiku.Carilah ibu susuan bukan lembu susuan...bagiku ayat itu tidak wajar digunakan kerana, tak ramai ibu-ibu yang berhubung secara maya...atau wayarles ni..jadi susu lembu adalah satu alternatif.Nak buat macam mana kalu hasil nya kurang dan tak dapat mengenyangkan anaknya.Ada sebab kenapa ALLAH jadikan susu lembu itu buleh diminum oleh manusia.Ia bukan benda haram pun...Ku amat memahami perasaan ibu-ibu yang sedaya upaya nak menyusukan anak mereka, tebal muka tanya sana sini tips banyakkan susu badan kerana aku juga berada didalam kelompok itu.Puas aku cuba itu dan ini..orang kata anak pertama memang macam ni,badan baru nak menyesuaikan diri, ha esok anak kedua dan ketiga okla...namun ku tidak mengalah, walaupun aku sulamkan azryl dengan susu lembu,alhamdullilah, dia juga sihat...
So ibu-ibu menyusu diluar sana jangan mengalah ok?biarpun kita sulamkan dengan susu lembu tapi kita tetap berusaha dan akan terus berusaha memberi susu badan kita walaupun setitik dua...
ibu-ibu muda seperti saya apakah persiapan anda dalam menyambut bulan ramadhan dan menyusukan anak dalam masa yang sama?kind to share with me?
Look at his innocent face..tak sampai hati tengok badannya diselaputi bintik-bintik merah..Mummy loves u darl.muah!!
(Azryl has to drink a special medication in order to stop the rashes from spreading all over his body.Lucky he didn't cry.)
Friday, August 6, 2010
Pelamin anganku musnah wokeh!! No wonder badan sengal-sengal jer kebelakangan ni and kuantiti susu pun drop.I blamed the poor innocent 'stress and cik 'penat' but actually cik'period' punya angkara.
I thought maybe this year bulehla pose penuh kan?rupa-rupanya ?...banjir ditengahari.Since after giving birth darah nifas i tak banyak due to c-sect,kali ni period datang tu dia!!! sebaldi penuh i rasa...7 or 8 time i changed my pad yesterday.And i got period pain as well..oh my..
Not just that my c-sect scar pun quite hurt as well.Ditambah pula dengan azryl yang kena flue..its a DOUBLE WHAMY for me.
So mommies yang dah datang period tu, what u usually do to maintain the susu ..i think it was super exausting for me.Darah keluar banyak ..u letih, and at the same time u kena breastfeed.
For a time being i amik folic acid..tapi after period i tak amik dahla...
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Kini, i am oficially berada di zaman kejatuhan ekonomi susu cap gantung...!!!
Kalu dulu setiap kali pam dapat 5 oz...kini 3 oz sahaja....
Ini kerana 2 minggu ini ku amatla penat sekali.Azryl baru lega dari demam ditambah pula dia kerap terjaga malam.kadang-kadang kul 3 pagi dia bangun samapi la ke pagi.Akibatnya ku tak tido.....
Oh tuhan, harapla keadaan ini sementara sahaja ...kerna ku ingin berikan azryl nikmat dan anugerah yang kau berikan kepadaku untuk selama mungkin.Biarpun setitik dua asalkan azryl dapt menikmati susu yang keluar dari badanku...amin.
Monday, August 2, 2010
First time wokeh mummy nak joint contest ni.Personally speaking, mummy loves to read Jiey^s Blog.Its about a journey of one brave mummy who is every single day without failed trying very hard to ensure her son lil Rayyan survive in this brutal world.Lil rayyan was born without brain cells.Even Dr's only gave him 3 days to survive..but Allah MAHA Besar..Lil rayyan was indeed a true fighter.HE gave strength to lil Rayyan to fight and fight for his life.Indeed, walaupun perjalanan Rayyan masih jauh lagi, he made it this far...syukur alhamdullillah...
According to Jiey^ this contest is dedicated to her blog followers..awwww..so sweet.Basically its easy ..the terms and regulations can be read at http://kernakasihkita.blogspot.com/
We have to write a simple entry about how we spend with our child every days,and how we divide ourselves between working, house chores,spending quality time with our child and of course entertain our beloved husband.Its not that easy ...
But being a mum, we were design to do multitasking.Right?There are no specific course , its natural.We can juggle and cut our self into pieces to suite our family need.
Me and azryl?well i live with my parent right after i gave birth.I am only a part-time wife to my husband.The reason why?He worked in Perlis while here i am working in Kuala Lumpur.This Long distance relationships needs a lot of patience(tho sometimes i am not that patience).I stayed at nilai but work in KL.Therefore as early as 5 am i woke up together with Azryl.Azryl loves to see Disney channel early in the morning.Clifford the Big Red Dog is his favourite show together with jojo circus.This will buy me times to help my mum in the kitchen.By 6 am i am off to work.Usually my mum will send Azryl to his babysitter around 8.30 a.m.I picked him up at 6 pm.So basically that was our daily routine within working days.
Weekend?It is slightly different from normal working days as Azryl father usually came and meet both of us.it is pretty tiring as well, because this time i got to be a 'wife'.hehehe.I tried my very best to fulfill both of my hero's need.Being a breast feed mum tho not fully BF, but weekends is heaven for Azryl.The reason why?He can fully clinging to my boobs 24 hours!!(sampai lembik wokeh.)During breast feed time is my ultimate bonding time with him.I talked with him,teased him till he fall asleep soundly in my arm.......................He also loves when i change his clothes and diapers of course.He will gigle, shouting even spraying.The words that out from his mouth only he himself know.hehehehe.Although my journey as a mother still milestones away, but everyday i motivate myself to be strong for him.I have no idea how long i am willing to be long distance wife,only time will tell me.It is indeed tough for me raising child alone in this metropolitan city.But i secretly hope that one day three of us going to be under one roof again....
Baby’s name: Azryl Daniel Bin Azman