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Friday, July 30, 2010

My dibo-dibo Super elo.

My heart melted when my mum sent me mms of azryl picture.He is soooooooooooooooooooooooo

cute!!with cap on, sit thight in the safety car seat, he is smiling, makes me feels happy and i just want to fly straight to him.

Adehla....tak sukenye makan gaji!!!!!i need to do somethingla...Anyway here is the picas that my mum sent to me this morning

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Pru I Care

Momm's!!!!





Have u oll's covered your loves one with medical insurance?Well currently alot of insurance company offer protection for child.Even Prudential itself the only insurance company that covers baby as early as 18 weeks in the womb.




I bukan ejen prudential wokeh, but i found that is interesting!!Waktu i pregnantkan azryl well i thought its enoughla my company punya insurance.U see, the good thing bout my company is semua ahli family i depa cover.From my husband towards my child.If u got 5 children , dun worry be happy, they all are fully covered as well.Hehehehe...



Tapi tak selama-lamanya i akan bekerja dengan company ni tul tak or mungkin i kerja sampai tua tetapi polisi company mungkin berubah thats why i prepared siap-siap walaupun takla secepat mana as i took insurance plan for azryl when he was 4 months old.


The best part about Prudential medical card is , it is not just medical card bit for education savings as well.So with 100 per month azryl will be covered for 50k per year .This policy can be change from time to time...depending on how much u can effort to pay or when your child is 18 years old how much savings for his or her education u want.Its up to u.


If anything happen to the payee iaitu omaknya yakni me..the insurance is free till he is 25 years old.




(dah bunyik macam ejen la pulak.hehehe.Anyway i relieved that he is covered now.Malang tidak berbau.As a parent we always want everything the best for our child , right?.)Do share your experienced and opinion regarding this matter ya mummies.

(kad baru dapat semalam together with the insurance policy.hehehehe.Loga makcik.)

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Tips in finding Good Babysitter aka nanny

Working mums!!

What criteria do u look in terms of finding a good babysitter?or u prefer send the beloved ones to the normal daycare?Some parent with good $$$, they can easily hire a maid or wiith no budget at all for daycare and babysitter they just transport their child to the parents house.


Here i just want to share my own criteria when choosing a babysitter for azryl.I started to look for a babysitter when i was still in confinement period.Even i took extra 1 week annual leave to make sure Azryl is pysically and mentally prepared when i sent him to the babysitter.That one week is crucial as i can closely look and made adjustment or change babysitter if i felt azryl not comfortable with the babysitter.

ok here is my terms and conditions when i searced the nanny:

1.Experience
(Most of the babysitter were fullyhousewives,yes indeed they got experienced in handling their own child but taking care of other people children was totally different.Each parents had their own expectations)

2.Not too old or not too young.
(Hmm .....maksud tua disini is tak terlalu berumur sangatla cam 55-ish ke atas tu as jaga budak kecik ni perlu tenaga lebih.Kena pantas bergerak.dekat rumah i , ade this nenek.Dia jaga 2 orang budak kecik je.dua-dua dalam 7 or 8 bulan macam tu.But disebelah petang and malam ajar budak besar mengaji plak.macam mana tuh?Babies need full attention.this one i reject.


3.Environtment
(I bukan ajar jadik bzz body wokeh darl but cube jadi a little bit cautious and observe betul-betul keadaan rumah dia.Tengok anak-anak lain yang dia jaga.selekehkah?lantai berhabukkah?Pandang sekali imbas.Kalu other kids yang dia jaga tu bersih, taka de air mata, happy jer, and lantai rumah dia berkilat..ok la tu.Tanya la jugak, selain jaga budak ni ade buat kerja lain ke,Coz certain babysitter ade yang amik tempahan kuih la amik anak sekolah la..abih tu jaga anak orang lain macam mana?Tell u this horrible story,adela this one babysitter dekat rumah i,dia tinggalkan anak yang dia jaga kat rumah untuk ambil anak sendiri dari sekolah.Alone!!!The worst part baby yang dia jaga tu baru 4 bulan.Bahaya ok?Depa nak duit dari kita of course la depan kite senyum manis je..huhuhu.

Lagi satu observe ade banyak tak buai tinggalan ke atau barang barang baby yang dah leftover..Bukannye ape semua itu maybe barang barang budak yang dia pernah jaga.Ask your self awat banyak sangat..something fishy must happened kan?The reason why This happened to my sister's friend.dia dah jadi OKU gara-gara his previous babysitter.Mak dia hantar babysitter hari pertama ok.Hari kedua dia terkejut anak dia macam tepung gomak dibedakkan oleh bbsitter.Mak dia happyla tengok.Rahsia terbongkar bila makdia nak breastfeed , air susu meleleh keluar dari mulut.Hati mak ni rasa ade sesuatu tak kena sapu segala bedak, tengok-tengok tudia anak dia nyer mulut cam senget.!!banyak lebam!!Masuk ICU anak dia okeh!!Bila tanya baby sitter tu ape jadi.Jawapan standard TAK TAHU!!.Nak buat report polis , Paed tu advise tak payah sangat as the baby was considered ok lagi as dia sendiri kena naik turun mahkahmah for 4 CASES regarding babysitter.Mengucap panjang i dengar.


4.Spotcheck
I suggest mummie kena amik one day leave tu just buat spotcheck on your baby once a while.Dont ever tell your babysitter that u cuti that day.Just tengok dari jauh...Bukannya ape.kekadang depa ni selalu bertandang kat rumah orang.Anak kita pun diangkut sama.Haish.....Ape ape jadi kat atas jalan kompom dia kata tak tahu.


*A reminder disini i am person who is tak kisah how much i have to pay to babysit my baby.I just want her to know that my son is precious.Name what you need as long as u take good care of my son.Sebolehnya i tak nak babysitter azryl banyak kerja sangat bila handle dia.I makesure diapers azryl already changed waktu hantar, dia dah tukar baju tak pakai baju tido and i paid her on time meaning i tak tunggu hujung bulan baru bayar.


*sewaktu dlm search mode, macam macam fiil babysitter i jumpa and alhamdullilah i jumpa this akak.She is 35 years old.Energetic woman And friendly as well.She loves children .Bila mana i amik azryl tak pernah i tengok ade merah kat punggung azryl,and azryl looks happy whenever i sent him to akak babysitternya.Whenever in each month i balik lambat meaning azryl got to stay longer in the babysitter house , i paid her extra.its due to the time consuming while jaga azryl.Yela to show your appreciation as well.Dengan harapan dia jaga anak kita elok-elok.tul tak?
Walaupun kedang dia suke bagi tahu last minute kalu dia ade hal..i still buleh consider dia a good babysitterla.

so mommies?how bout yours??

Bodylicious

Ya babeh!!



Pepagi makcik nak mengomen tang bentuk badan nih..Besala bila cam nak mengutuk badan sendiri nih cakap utagha la no?hehehehe
Badan makcik ni buleh la dikatakan serdehano ja.dulu sebelum kahwin agak selim gakla.pas kahwin..masyaallah..naik sikit tapi makcik tak risau sangat.Time tu makcik belajaq lagi.Tensi sana, tensi sini makan lagu mana banyak pun takpa.exam la katakan.....
Bila dah kena buatan laki sendiri tu dia......badan cheq jadi macam tong drum.Setiap bulan naik 3 kilo.macam mano tu?selera makan sentiasa ado.hak tak sedap pun tibai je.




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Memang la bank sungguh..bank pengumpulan lemak degil.




























Adehla cam mano makcik nak buek nih?memang betui kot orang kata kalu beranak kot tingkap nih payah turun berat badan..yola takleh bengkung bagai...Apola nasib badan makcih.Ni nak poso ,harapnyer turunla sekiloka dua kilo ka,kalu buleh 10 kilo terus.Tapi tu cume umpama mimpi dalam mimpi.hehehehehe.Cubo nasibla iyo?














Ni gambo makcik ngan adik teruna makcik .Bukan laki makcik no?tersembul sana sini lolomak degil tuh.










Tuesday, July 27, 2010

5 months old development

Strong Enough to feed herself
Your baby may be able to hold her own bottle now and it's fine to let her, but never prop the bottle for her and walk away. A propped bottle could cause your baby to overeat or even choke. Also, if your baby falls asleep while sucking on the bottle, milk or formula can pool in her mouth, coating her teeth with sugar, which can lead to tooth decay. Pooled milk can also drip into the tubes that connect the back of the throat with the middle part of the ear, leading to ear infections.Your baby's probably showing more signs that she's ready for solids — from a weaker tongue-thrust reflex (when your baby pushes out her tongue when something is placed on it) to a keener interest in the foods you and others are eating. But don't be in a rush to give your baby solid food. Discuss when to introduce solid food with your baby's healthcare provider.Your baby's digestive system may not be ready for solids, and she might not be able control her chewing and swallowing muscles. (Don't worry: That will all come in a few weeks.) Giving your baby solid foods too early can raise her risk of developing food allergies, too. Common allergies include citrus, egg whites, peanut butter, wheat, shellfish, and cow's milk.Use family mealtime to socialize with your baby. She'll enjoy watching you eat, and she may even eat more herself as a result. In another month or so, she'll be better able to sit up by herself and grasp small objects, too, adding to her dinner table skills.(Azryl cuma boleh pegang sekejap jer as he kind of lazy to hold the bottle for quite sometimes.Pluss he started to eat semi solid food when he was at 4 months++.baby rice with milk up untill now.yum-yum....)




Sitting All alone
Your baby may now be able to get into a sitting position from lying on her stomach by pushing up on her arms. If she's sitting independently, stay nearby for support — even if you provide pillows to cushion a possible fall. Your baby may have mastered the sitting skill, but she still might lose interest in being upright and topple over.


(Still no sign of sitting on his own yet.But he sure does rolled over and over again super duper fast.!!Within split second u can see him under the table.)



Who's that?!
Your baby may start showing signs of one of her first major emotional milestones — stranger anxiety. She may become clingy and anxious around new (and even familiar!) people and may cry if a stranger suddenly approaches her.Keep this in mind when you're around people she doesn't know, and try not to be embarrassed when she cries in someone else's arms — just take her back and calm her down by holding her yourself. Tell your friends and family to approach your little one with slow gentle movements.A case of stranger anxiety doesn't mean you have to avoid new faces. Your baby will benefit from getting used to being around people other than you and your partner. Just remember that she needs your patience and understanding to get through this very important stage of development.


(in this case so far no sign of rejecting strange people.His father visits him once a week or sometimes once every fortnight but he seemes to act cool and ok with his father.Probably his father always speak with him through the phone.)





Eye see you
At all well-baby visits, your child's doctor should examine your baby's eyes, checking their structure and alignment, her ability to move them correctly, and for signs of congenital eye conditions or other problems. Find out what to expect from the examination and what to look for yourself.


(last check up his paed does not said anything about his eyes while examine azryl's health and body.)


source: Babycenter.com


So this is basically what u should espect when your baby hit 5 months old.But do bear in mind babies are unique in their own way.Different baby , different development.Nevertheless as their parent we should always monitor their status and alert when something not right occur to them or happen to them.




So Azryl lalink, mummy is so happy to be your mom. :)



p/s:Sila abaikan kaki itu.

Azryl condition

Fiuh....lucky it was not campak...or worse denggi.Went to see Paed yesterday and actually it was due to the reaction of teeth growing inside the mouth.2 teeth two be exact.Actually azryl started to be cranky since last saturday.Asyik nak berdukung je.Baring tak nak.Merengek.Lucky dia masih nak minum susu and makan..Hati mak ni...adehla bagai direntaprentap...tak suke tengok anak sakit.
Demam dah kebah...rashes ade lagi sikit je...hope u are ok with the baby sitter darling.love u angel.

Monday, July 26, 2010

Quick Update

hi peeps...

Currently azryl has a fever .Quite worried because his fever is on and off.I think it might be the early sign of Campak.Waaaaaaaa!!!!hati mummy ni dah tak keruan wokeh...

Ni sat lagi nak p sepital to see Paed.Hope nothing serious.Biasala demamkan.


Will update later.

Friday, July 23, 2010

IBU

Tugas berat yang perlu digalas di bahu seorang wanita............................
Mendidik,mengasuh, menjaga permata hati yang dikandung selama 9 bulan dengan tanpa rasa jemu...


Hebatnya wanita,walaupun anggota tubuh badannya ditoreh, dihiris,dijahit ..tapi dia tetap utuh dan boleh berdiri diatas kaki sendiri..demi anaknya yang tercinta...

Jikalau anaknya menangis...diusap lembut ubun ubun anaknya memujuk dengan kasih sayang..walaupun seharian penat bekerja dan menguruskan rumahtangga...

hai anak...

Ibu ini tidak meminta kamu membalas setiap titik sarah yang keluar sewaktu melahirkan mu,
Tidak pula ibu ini meminta membalas setiap jam yang dihabiskan sewaktu malam hari sewaktu menidurkan mu,
Dan tidak juga ibu ini meminta membalas setiap sen yang dikeluarkan untuk keperluanmu sehari-hari...
Kerana ku adalah ibumu sayang.....

Jikalau kamu menangis, hati ini bagai dihiris hiris sayang...
seandainya kamu sakit, tidak putus putus ibu ini berdoa agar sakitmu sembuh dan kalau boleh biarlah ibu yang menanggungnya....
Kerana ku adalah ibu sayang............

Oleh itu....anakku,
Ibu ini hanya mahukan yang terbaik buatmu,seandainya kamu tersasar dari landasan kebenaran pabila dewasa nanti, jangan takut sambutla tangan ibumu, ibu senantiasa bersamamu nak walau dimana saja kamu berada....


Kasih ibu terhadapmu tak pernah kurang walau sezarahpun sayang.....
Semoga hidupmu sentiasa dirahmati oleh YANG Kuasa......

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Stoning Soraya(Sangat Kejam)

A movie that u must watch .......Its a sad true story in a small deserted village in Iran.






The story takes place in 1986, just as Khomeini is coming into power in Iran. Undercover French journalist Freidoune Sahebjam (Jim Caviezel) is traveling though a small southwestern village when his car breaks down. Surrounded by strife but left with little choice other to wait until his car is repaired, the anxious Freidoune is soon approached by persistent local Zahra (Shohreh Aghdashloo), who convinces him to follow her into the courtyard behind her home. There, she reveals to him that she has just borne witness to a most heinous crime. Just the previous day, Zahra had watched the men or her town stone an innocent woman to death. That woman was Soraya (Mozhan Marnò), long-suffering wife of abusive tyrant Ali. Soraya wed Ali in an arranged marriage, never realizing the horrors that she and her children would endure under her husband's heavy hand. When Ali requested a divorce so that he would be free to marry a 14-year-old girl, Soraya boldly refused, knowing that she and the children would most certainly starve to death without a husband to support them. Ali was too poor to return Soraya's dowry as custom dictates in a divorce, but he found another way out of the marriage. Under Shariah law, adultery is a crime punishable by death if the accused is unable to prove her innocence. Scheming with the newly installed, counterfeit mullah, Ali accused his wife of adultery. In order to ensure that she had no chance of defending herself, he blackmailed several male villagers to testify on his behalf. A tribunal was quickly called, and Soraya's fate forever sealed. ~
The saddest part is..the husband throw stones followed by her own son , followed by her
father....and they dont allowed soraya's parent to bury her dead body but to just let the body eaten by the wild dogs.Can u imagine what it is like when her own mother picked up the leftover pieces of bones and flesh of her own daughter who was mistakenly abused by her own husband?????





And funny part is they just let the husband got away and not be punished at all.In fact he didnt married that girl because that girl suddenly refused to marry him.Dan Perempuan, seorang isteri yang tidak berdosa itu dizalimi dengan kejam sekali dek perbuatan Suami yang rakus hawa nafsunya.....





Sedih sungguh...sepatutnya ISLAM bukan agama menindas kaum wanita.Didalam Al-Quran sendiri terdapat surah khas untuk wanita.Why??





Air mata jatuh tatkala melihat anak-anak lelakinya merejam batu terhadap ibu mereka yang langsung tidak berdosa....itu.....








........wallahualam.......................

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Inception

Friends!!

Last weekend i dengan my siblings bersemangat p cinema tengok wayang(At the same time i felt guilty leaving prince at home)>The movie called INCEPTION.Leonardo is the main character.


I nak tanyala kat u olls, have u seen the movie?if yes..the ending part was a bit puzzled... dunno
weather its in reality or he was still dreaming?

Will u explain to me so that it is clear?haiyo maafkan makcik nih..lama dah tak tengok wayang semenjak ade anak nih...

Oh one more thing,there was a lady that caught my eye attention.Bukan i nak mengumpat ok..but i feel sad.Sad because she bring along her baby inside the cinema.I dun mind if the baby cried but my concern is the extremely loud noise came from the movie that might hurt the baby's ears.I dun really enjoy the movie because i kept thinking about Azryl.

Mommies, this is my personal opinion, i dun think it is a good idea to bring infants in the cinema.First it is not good for the infants hearing,second he might not comfortable in the stuffy place.and third he might catch cold and flue..or fever due to the temperature of the air-con inside the cinema....

hmm entahla..maybe i am bit Conservative bila sampai bab macam nih..maafkan makcik no??

Government Vs Private Hospital Finale.

I think i did promised to tell the story right after i kena warded at HKL.HKL sapa yang tak kenai?selruh kes teruk-teruk semua refer sana.Famous la kan for government hospital and super crowded as well.kalu di private we can have peaceful mind while entering there provided u stand by with a handful of cash. :).



Di wad bersalin, dah ghupa macam kilang buat anak.U will see adegan tolak troly sepanjang masa.U will see woman crying because of the pain labour.U will see intern Dr asking an endless question to the patients .Macam polis pun ade.I pun tak terkecuali di soal siasat.But the Interns were friendly.I still remember this young chinese guy. He was an intern at HKL..quite friendly asking me tones of questions.Since i ni diconsider as late booking, so i terpaksa jawab soalan-soalan yang diberikan.Antaranya:
1.When is your last period?-I cant really remember
2.Have u ever miscarriage before?-No
3."Mam, you seems to be overweight , have u ever done MGTT before?"-my answer yes,and i dont have diabetes or blood preassure problem.And he asked "ok why u didnt go for the second time?-My answer is , the dr said is not neccessary as i dun have any problems at all.

Ade banyak lagi soalan sebenarnye yang i pun dah tak ingat dah.The interview session went up untill 1 and half hours.

So, sepanjang berada di wad 3B tu, every 1 hour tekanan darah kena ambil, and baby's heart beat graf kena ambil.Still no sign of contraction.At that time i was sad, excited and bored.Sad because i had to leave my cats at home,my husband not around because he need to settle everything at home pluss men were not allowed in the ward.Excited because , finally i got to see my little ones!!.Bored?because i was all alone, nobody to talk to,tho beside,and infront of me there were other patients waiting to explode.heheheh.

Anyway my scanning session with the specialist schedule at night.So that they can decide wether i have to go for c-sec or not.While waiting my turn, finally i got courage to go to other's women bed and greet them.I met new friends!!One of them was a young woman, younger then me, her water already broke for one hour, no sign of pain as she can talk and laugh with me..hehehe.The other one was slightly older then me.She has to be induce as she got diabetic problem.We chatted untill the young lady started to feel sharp pain.That was my first time to see a woman cried in agony due to give birth.I tried my best to calm her, nassage her back coz she got nobody.Her husband died right after she got pregnant.I was speechless at that time.No wonder she was all alone.At the mean time i asked the nurse to look after her, biasalakan depa nak seluk dulu bukak berapa cm,but she was only dilated 3 cm.It seems that she cant hold it anymore.I tried to convince the nurse that i thought she is ready to go to the labour room.The nurse mcm marah jugak kat i coz dia kata belum masa lagi.I suruh dia reconfirmed , there u go 4cm dilate.Sudahnye nurse tu suruh i balik ke katil i and rest.what the hell!!i just want to help the helpless woman, who got nobody else just like me.The only different is my husband not died yet.Deep in my heart i hope she will be safe.By 3 am she safely dilivered a healthy baby boy.His face resemble her late husband.She cried wokeh..i was nearly cried as well.She lost a lot of blood.She couldnt nurse her baby properly and her baby cried and cried and cried.I was so pity of her.I helped her to look after the baby.Since darah nifas dia banyak, she asked me to help to look after her son , coz she need to change her pad.suddenly she collased!!i quickly called the nurse and first time i nampak darah macam daging lembu seberat 1 kg jatuh bedebub !!She fainted.She quickly gone into labour room one more time.Dia mengalami tumpah darah yang amat dasyat.I pity her son.And this time i cried.That morning i felt so helpless i, myself got to fast due to my c-sec was schedule that morning and from a far i can hear her baby screaming loudly.kalaulah i boleh bantu bagi susu ....nasib baik that morning her mom datang and look after her.She look white due to loss a large amount of blood.Lega sikit i.Secretely i pray that may Allah help her...
I stayed in the hospital 3 days 2 nights.She was discharge same day as mine.I said to her if u need any help dont hesitate to call me...untill now she never contact me.Probably she forgot about me or she is buzy coping with the new life.

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AS i mentioned before i safely delivered azryl at 2.08 pm on friday afternoon.everything went smooth... :).Husband seemed happy and he waited for me patiently outside the operation room untill he fall asleep.Di a pun tetiba jadi peramah as banyak beno nurse muda-muda yang comel.
Typical man.Cannot do anything.....

So pengajaran yang i dapat sewaktu melahirkan is, sentiasa bersyukur dengan apa yang dah diberikan....kerana ada org nasibnye kurang baik berbanding kita.Ade org yang lebih menderita dari kita..sentiasa merendahkan diri kerana itu akan membuatkan diri kita disenangi..

I hope that one day i can meet her again..semoga bahagia menyinari hidupnye selepas ini...amin..

Small and simple But Give Great Effect

Hi !!! :)


Yesterday ma husband managed to squeeze his time to visit me.Today he is heading to Melaka.
I was very happy to see him last night as we barely see each other after i moved to ma parent house.

The story i wanna share with you guys is .....this:

As usual ,we headed to restaurant to have some dinner as he said to me that he wanted me to eat with him.hehehe.Right after we finished our dinner he paid the bills.The bill was 19 ringgit.Husband gave him50 ringgit But the cashier gave 33 ringgit!!as the balance is actually 31 ringgit.I thought my husband going to remain silence about it .I was wrong.
He gave back the two ringgit to that cashier. (i was wondering why he act like a Saint???)
On my bay back he explained to me that I ate my dinner..and the nutrients from the food i ate become milkwhich will drink by my son.Kalau buleh dia nak anak dia including me dapat makanan yang baik, bersih and halal.So lebih baik dia bagi balance tu untuk dapat berkat dalam makanan.(ooooooooooooooooooooooo....i was speechless and at the same time terharu la)
Bukannye ape,walaupun ini nampak sikit aje tapi kesannye begitu mendalam tul tak?

So my dear hubs cant wait to see u this weekend. :)

Monday, July 19, 2010

Pap Smear

mommies!!


Have u done the Pap smear test?Its a test to prevent servix cancer.If it is detect early , chances of death risks might decrease(tho mati buleh banyak cara selain cancer).Its no2 woman killer aside breast cancer.

Now what is pap smear ??(source from medline plus encylopedia)
URL of this page: http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/003911.htm







A Pap smear is an examination under the microscope of cells scraped from the tip of the cervixcervix. The cervix is the lower part of the uterus (womb) that opens at the top of the vagina.

How the Test is Performed
The Pap smear is done as part of a gynecological exam. You will lie on a table and place your feet in stirrups to position your pelvis for examination. The health care provider will insert an instrument (speculum) into your vaginavagina and open it slightly to see inside the vaginal canal.
The health care provider will take a sample of cells from the outside and just inside the opening of the cervix (cervical canal) by gently scraping the outside of the cervix with a wooden or plastic spatula, then inserting a small brush that looks like a pipe cleaner into the canal.
The cells are placed on a glass slide, or put in a bottle containing a preservative, and then sent to the lab for examination.






How to Prepare for the Test
Tell your health care provider if you:









  • Are taking any medications or birth control pills


  • Have had an abnormal Pap smear


  • Might be pregnant


  • Within 24 hours of the test, avoid:


  • Douching


  • Having intercourse


  • Taking a tub bath


  • Using tampons
    Avoid scheduling your Pap smear while you have your period (are menstruating), because blood and cells from the uterus may affect the accuracy of the Pap smear. Empty your bladder just before the test.







How the Test Will Feel
You may have some discomfort, similar to menstrual cramps, and a feeling of pressure during the procedure. You may bleed a little bit after the test.








Why the Test is Performed
The Pap smear can detect cancerouscancerous or precancerous conditions of the cervix. Most invasive cancers of the cervix can be detected early if women have Pap tests and pelvic examinations.
Screening should start within 3 years after first having vaginal intercourse or by age 21. After the first test:
Woman should have a Pap smear ever 2 years to check for cervical cancer.
If you are over age 30 or your Pap smears have been negative for 3 times in a row, your doctor may tell you that you only need a Pap smear every 3 years.
If you or your sexual partner have other new partners, then you should have a Pap smear every 2 years.
After age 65-70, most women can stop having Pap smears as long as they have had three negative tests within the past 10 years.
If you have a new sexual partner after age 65, you should begin having Pap smear screening again.
Women who have had a total hysterectomy (uterus and cervix removed) and have not had any previous history of cervical dysplasia (abnormal cells), cervical cancer, or any other kind of pelvic cancer, may not need to have Pap smears.








Normal Results
A normal value is negative, meaning there are no abnormal cells present.
Note: Normal value ranges may vary slightly among different laboratories. Talk to your doctor about the meaning of your specific test results.








What Abnormal Results Mean
The current system divides the abnormal results into these main areas:
ASCUS or AGUS (atypical cells of uncertain significance): These changes may be due to infection with HPV but may also mean there are precancerous changes present.
LSIL (low-grade dysplasia) or HSIL (high-grade dysplasia): This means precancer changes are likely to be present; the risk of cancer is greater if the result is HSIL.
Carcinoma in situ (CIS): This usually means the abnormal changes are likely to progress to cancer.
Atypical squamous cells (ASC–H): This means abnormal changes have been found and may be HSIL.
Atypical glandular cells (AGC): Cell changes are seen that suggest precancer of the upper part of the cervical canal or inside the uterus.
When a Pap smear shows abnormalities, further testing or follow-up is needed. The next step depends on the results of the Pap smear, your previous history of Pap smears, and risk factors you may have for cervical cancer.
This may include:
Colposcopy-directed biopsyColposcopy-directed biopsy
An HPV test to check for the presence of the HPV virus types most likely to cause cancer
For minor cell changes, doctors usually recommend having a repeat Pap smear in 3-6 months.







Risks
There are no risks involved.






Considerations
The Pap smear test is not 100% accurate. Cervical cancer may be missed in a small number of cases. Fortunately, cervical cancer develops very slowly in most women and follow-up Pap smears should identify worrisome changes in time for treatment.
The following drugs may affect Pap smears:Colchicine









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  • Estrogen


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  • Progestins


  • Silver nitrate







Alternative Names
Papanicolaou test





The gynae usually suggest to do the test 6 months after giving birth.Now i need to consider to perform this test as Azryl going to hit 6 months old soon. :).
Better go for early prevention before its too late to do anything

Fifth Months Old Vaccination

Weehooooo!!!





Azryl has successfully took the fifth months old jab pretty well.He lovessss to see the Dr.His Dr's name is Dr Francis.Quite charming Dr hehehe(excuse me please.... :) )


Lets see his jab is include the :





1.DPT (dos no3)


2.Hib (dos no 3)


3.IPV (dos no 3)








Overall my lil boy is ok with weight 9.24 kg(syabas beta!!naik lebih kurang 0.4 kg), His height is 70cm, one teeth can be seen clearly when he smile, another 2 teeth coming up soon.(I am quite worried coz he loves to bite my nipple when he is on my boobs.(scary part...ooooo)





Oh , forgot to mentioned that azryl got caught with minor eczema near his ear.He kept scratching his ears untill behind of his ears bleed a little.The Dr gave him cream to put behind his ears pluss some oral medication.I remember the cream's name elomyd+trysd, the syrup medicine i couldnt remember...its abit complicates.hehehe.Anyway the cream is quite handy..tho..it is because we can used it whenever our child got nappy rash, rashes due to the body heat, and milk rashes(due to latching and clinging to our boobs for quite long time..it happened to azryl most of the time)





Next Jab is on 6 months old where he ought to take second dose of pneumococcal vaccine pluss rotavirus vaccine as well..This will cause mummy to faint ...hehehehe.Its expensive !!


Still..tho mummy broke next month , u are my top prority..prince.More important thing is you are healthy, your smile worth a millions, your chubby leg , your innocent eye is something that i cant simply replace with anything else.Mummy love u damn much.





love u son...very much!!





P/s i took this picas on our way to Seremban Specialist Hospital..He slept through out the journey ...eheheheh



tumelnyer anak mummy sowang nih

Friday, July 16, 2010

Telinga tengah Panas nih....


Ibu-ibu..........








Dengar tak berita kat radio pagi tadi?Minyak naik lagi????????????????





Oh no.....I bukan nak kutuk kerajaan , bukan juga membenci kerajaan..tapi menteri -menteri yang sedap bersemayam di singgahsana tak turun ke tinjau keaadaan sebenar rakyat jelata??


Kompomla mereka tak tahu sehari berapa duit untuk isi minyak, drebar isikan pluss mimyak free untuk depa...








Bagi yang makan gaji seperti hamba pacar yang hina nih..dok jauh dihujung negeri selangor plak tuh, mai kerja naik kereta.. tau dak berapa cek kena isi minyak...(cakap utara no??)


3 hari 80 ringgit ++, tu tak masuk duit tol lagi, makan lagi, pampers anak lagi..sakit-sakit lagi...


walau naik 5 sen tau dak rega makanan lain pun naik..(ayam, daging, telur dan seangkatan dengannya..?)





Kami ni pekerja swasta ..bukan naik gaji tiap-tiap tahun..bonus?mimpila nak dapat.Gaji dok takuk tu jugak.





Lagi satu..kos perbelajaan kompomla bertambah kan?ini semua boleh menyebabkan keretakan rumahtangga!!yola laki bini dok pening sakan tang mana nak kobek duit nih..yang si isteri plak mengeluh sakan sebab duit tak dak nak beli barang dapur..





Yang kami hangin sesangat la ni depa suruh kita amalkan gaya hidup sihat no?dah namanye pun miskin kompomla barang mahai cam gula tu beli sekali sekala.Menteri makan free,kat hotel ..desert apa bala semua dok jamu..sapa yang kena amal gaya hidup sihat nih?menteri ka rakyat yang kurus melidi?adehla......





Pak menteri...cukup-cukupla naik itu, naik ini..tak lama lagik pilihanraya...kalu ini jadiknya macam mana rakyat nak kasik undi nih...naya golongan macam kami yang berdekit-dekit carik rezeki nih....

tolong na ..cek mintak tolong sesangat kesiankanla rakyat jelata...

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Breast feeding update

hallo gorgeous moms!!

Have u ever faced like my situation where, u got different amount of milk for each boobs during pumping session?
I tried my very best not to be upset tho i knew 1.5 oz to 2 oz is normal for each boobs for each pumping session....
Well this morning i got only 1.5 oz for my left boob and 2.5 oz for my right boob.huhu.Total still 4 oz.I guessed because i am tired thats all.
So i need to keep my self happy la kan?
By the way here is one picas that i managed to capture during my morning pumping session. :)

Semua ini dilakukan hanya untuk permata hati ku sorang nih.Pengarang jantung, intan berlian ..tak lain tak bukan Anak azman bin Ismail...azryl daniel

Goverment Hospital vs Private Hospital (2)

Hallu,

As makcik ni promised i would like to continue my own experienced with government hospital and private hospital.

Disebabkan ini my first pregnancy,i pun check up kat dua dua tempat , one is klinik ibu mengandung, second klinik pakar wanita at kepong...as i mentioned before.
The reason why at klinik ibu menangandung yang i pergi at Bandar baru sentul tu taka de provide scanning.They just listen the baby heart beat using a cup...or it looks like a cup.At first when i saw that cup i cannot hold myself from laughing wokeh?...not just that they measured our belly using tape.Mabeles!!because from the height of your belly they can estimate how many weeks of your pregnancy.I continued to do my routine medical check up over there untill the very end 39 weeks and 9 days.hehehehehe,

I thought i already mentioned that Azryl was born through c-section.

Now ,this is funny part...
Actually i was not overdue like i mentioned to the HKL Dr and nurses.It was because i was afraid with ma baby condtion.Since i decided to give birth at government hospital,therefore my private gynae suggest me to go to hospital early.Last check up they baby was around 3.8 kg.Usually HKL wont except patient unleast it was overdue.My gynae also said the water around baby was getting less everyday tho He was at that time in a safe condition.

Since Chinese new year celebration was just around the corner, The hospital will surely crowded with patient but less staff especially gynae.

So i just told the klinik ibu mengandung to get a reference letter by showing my scanned baby picture.Usually the scanned was overhead from the schedule.Coz Azryl is big.

Straight away the next day , me and ma husband went to hkl lenggang kangkung.I didnt bring anything.Coz i thought i might not be warded that day.My asssumption was wrong.Luckily i already packed everything , my husband just need to grab them when he reached home...

(Panjang berjelakan?hehehe..makcik sambung part three plak no?? as there were interesting stories when i was warded at ward 3B haritu.Quite touching story..nantikan ye?tho i doubt ade yang nak baca..

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

One of the wonderful moments as a Mother

Doodlidoooo,,.....


I managed to capture a video of ma prince while waited him to fall asleep...How i wish he could remained in baby state forever...I am going to cherish that moment forever as long as i am still alive.




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Harapnye dia tahu bahawasanye tiada ape yang ibu ini pinta melainkan kesejahteraan dia di dunia dan akhirat.harapnye sayang tahu, kasih mummy terhadap mu..its more beyond your imagination.I love u son..

Suami surirumah tangga?

Mommies!!!





Apa pandangan mummy-mummy sekalian mengenai tajuk diatas?Our husband as a housewives @househusband?Wifey berkerja as suami?memasak, membasuh, mengasuh..

Not just that, we ,wifey pay for all the house expensenses including water and electricity bills?

Sounds ridiculous.



Tapi ini semua betul-betul terjadi di tempat kita...bulehkah?

Bagi pandangan yer mummy sekalian?

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Goverment Hospital vs Private Hospital (1)

Ohohohoho.......

I tak pregnant lagi wokeh...just nak share info tentang kedua dua jenis hospital nih since i dah try kedua-duanye semasa buat prenantal checkup haritu......including delivery experienced at HKL.

I knew most of the bloggers banyak menceritakan tentang pengalaman masing-masing tentang hospital atau klinik tempat mereka buat pemeriksaan anti-natal.

Now here is my version based on my very own experienced sewaktu i pregnantkan azryl dahulu.I rajin juga mengoo-gelling internet tentang hospital yang disyorkan oleh rakan-rakan blog ...most of them bagi thumbs up kepada Hospital Pakar An-Nur yang terletak di Bangi.

Anyway,

My first antinatal check-up is dekat Klinik Pakar Wanita Kepong.The price for vitamins and check up roughly dalam 70 ringit.Ok la...The Dr quite friendly as well.Sewaktu i mengalami bleeding , i went to his clinic but apparently he was not there so this was like an emergency case i straight away gone to Pusrawi Hospital..It was super crowded plus i did not make any appointment.I chosed Dr Adilah.She was friendly as well but apparently the nurses not that friendly.The fees????At that time i was charged RM4++.(Expensive jugakla).They even charge the cotton ball that she used on me....(oh my......)But i continued to do the follow up check up at Pusrawi till my bleeding problem was over.After that i continued with klinik pakar wanita kepong.No traffic jammed and i can come on saturday to do my routine antinatal check-up.

When my pregnancy reached 7 month...i decided to give birth at government hospital..So bukakla buku merah...hehehehehehe.Kitapun dah tahu senario kat klinik ibu mengandung macam mana, kalu nak top 10 silalah datang awal.

Ramai orang cakap nurse gomen ni garangla, kureng asam pedas la, mcm-mcmla kureng.Surprisingly, they were so polite.I dunno wether this is hukum karma or what tapi ade satu pepatah melayu cakap buat baik dibalas baik.Alhamdullilah....i dapat nurse yang quite sporting and sangat tak kedekut dalam memberi tipstips especially breastfeeding,pregnancy care,baby care and etcla...

Oh not to forget i also pernah ke Pusat rawatan Islam dekat KG Bharu..ni pun buleh kira thumbs up jugakla..coz Dr disini mengamalkan pendekatan secara islamic.Bersopan dr ni menerangkan kat i tentang kondisi baby waktu i buat 3D scan kat situ.Chargepun dalam 120 including consultation.Not Too bad...

(cop dah banyak pulak makcik nih membebel ..nanti i sambung lagik coz mesti penat baca entry panjang berla nih...huhu...part 2 akan menyusul yer... :) )

Pissed OFF

Yesterday was a totally masacre to me.From early in da morning towards the end of the day....
I guessed that's why they called monday blues...

Usually i arrived at azryl's babysitter around 6.30 but if there was no jammed or bad weather i can easily arrived around 6.10 pm .So to make this story more interesting,

I found out the baby sitter house was lock .Meaning she was not around with my baby.
I thought to my self"oh , maybe she bring azryl for a walk"I waited and waited.Meanwhile i tried to call her but no answer....

Up untill 7 pm there were no sign of azryl and his baby sitter .I started to panic!!Of course as a mother u should be panic wokeh.I cried and phone my husband.I liked to think worst case scenario...and what to do cannot blame me, she didnt pick up the phone,nor answering my text msg...I was like a mad woman who lost his son.

Finally i saw her with her husband and azryl of course.She claimed that she didnt bring the phone coz she need to rush to the airport.My goodness.I was startled and i tried my best to control my voice not to be harsh on her.Its not that i dont like her.She cared about azryl.But her habit is always like to tell everything in last minute.She just can msg me earlier telling that she is going to the airport and she can asked me to take azryl early......

I cried because i was so mad.I wish i just can stop working and take care of azryl by myself....
Oh my.....

Monday, July 12, 2010

GOLD

Mommies!!





Perasan tak Kat supermarket sekrang baik susu or baby's food semuanye ade 2 jenis, satu GOLD , satu lagi biasa...hadehla..kalu GOLD pepaham jela kan harga pun GOLD jugak.








Since Azryl dah 5 bulan, tangan ni gatai betul nak beli Nestle GOLD baby's food which are apple cereal Gold and Prune cereal Gold.

Looks delicious to me ;) .........

There are other brand such as Heinz and Gebber but i dont reckon the ready made bottle food for our child as tho they said no artificial colouring ,perservatives or whatsoever i doubt la.Think logic , nasi sehari kalu tak simpan dalam peti pun basi , inikan pulak mashed fruit or custard and etc.Surely ade tul tak ?Jadi lebih baikla buat sendiri.But cereal to me wokeh hehehehe.

Now azryl is currently on Bellamy organic baby's rice.He took the cereal very well.A tablespoon everyday...would made him poop twice per day..!!i am not worried about constipation anymore. :)

So dearie mummy cant wait to buy u Nestle GOLD plak..see how u can take it or not.

The Wise Octopus did it again...!!

Oh baby baby...tet tet tet net.......................


Spain won the Worl Cup!!!!!Clap-clap-clap.....

The mighty octopus did a wonderful picked by picking or hugging the spain flag!!hehehehe..
Its not his fault..i guessed he was actracted with the striking color of the spain flag.
Ok , this is the first time ever spain waon the cup.Oh my surely got a special holiday over there...
How i wish Malaysia won the cup.1 week off wokeh!!sukenya..tapi harapan tinggal harapan....
sob...sob... :(

So guys viva espana!!


P/s: Tak payah la cakap nak masak sotong tuh as Paul dah ade bodyguard la ni... :)

HAppy 5 Months Old Azryl!!!

My goodness sedar tak sedar putera mummy dah 5 bulan....See how fast time flies?
Mummy bersyukur banyak banyak coz up untill now..u are healthy...
Tak ade lain yang mummy minta kat DIA selain kesihatan mu,panjang umurmu dan rezeki mu dimurahkan sayang.....

We had a mabeles weekend last week as your abah finally came to meet us!!heheheh.How i miss your abah and he missed u damn much.Yela sebulan tak jumpa..tengok-tengok anak teruna dia dah ade gigi sebatang....... :)

Kita pergi rumah tok angkat azryl and happynye dia jumpe azryl.hehehehehe.The best part is mummy dapat rehatkan tulang, and badan mummy coz abah azryl sedia melayan azryl tak kira masa dan tempat.Azryl pun seronok sangat ade orang sedia melayan azryl kan?kul 2.30 pg azryl bangun nak main..abah layan azryl sambil tengok bola.bagus-bagus.MUmmy plak tido ternganga(i doubt tho,,but you abah claimed that mummy tido ternganga.Selalunya mummy tido bersopan santun wokeh)

Tapi,kita berdua terpaksa berpisah lagi di hujung minggu, abah azryl kena kerja hari isnin...berjurai-jurai airmata abah time nak naik bas masa nak bertolak ke perlis semalam...Mummy?mummy tahankan aja airmata mummy nih sebabnya , mummy pujuk diri mummy hujung minggu ni kita dapat bersatu semula dengan abah....

Azryl sayang, walaupun kita duduk berjauhan dengan abah, tapi tidak sedetik pun dia lupakan azryl tau.Mummy berharap hari dimana kita akhirnya duduk serumah itu tiba..Mummy pun tak sanggup duduk berjauhan dengan abah azryl.Kami buat semua ini supaya azryl mendapat apa yang baby lain dapat.Bukan mummy tak boleh berhenti kerja and terus tinggal dengan abah kat perlis nun tapi mummy fikirkan masa depan azryl.

So dearie sweet angel, sama-sama kita berdoa ok?berdoa mummy dapat kerja di utara satu hari nanti.Moh kita naik traktor sesama bila ayah nak kerjakan padi dia k?

Tapi sebelum tu azryl kena sentiasa ceria, sihat and senyum untuk mummy tau?

Mummy love u darl!!

Friday, July 9, 2010

Ayah Dan Ibu

Entry nih khas untuk rakan-rakan blogger yang bergelar ayah dan ibu.Ia juga ditujukan khas untuk mummy rayyan,mummy megat jr, dan mummy alanna...walaupun tidak pernah bersua muka tapi hati ini telah jatuh kasih terhadap permata istimewa mereka.Sesungguhnya mereka tabah dalam menhadapi ujian yang diberikan Oleh-NYA.

Ku doakan agar sinar dan kebahagiaan menanti mereka di kemudian hari.
Terimalah Ayah Dan Ibu -dari arwah Sudirman......buat tatapan kita semua...
Tahniah kerana telah menjadi ibu dan bapa yang baik buat permata hati yang kita amat sayangi.....
Ayah dan ibu
Itulah permulaan kami
Dapatlah melihat bulan danMatahariAhai...
Yang dikurniakan dari IlahiAhai...
Ayah dan ibu lahMesti dihormati
Ayah dan ibuWali dan juga keramat
Pada mereka kita beri hormatAhai...
Bagilah tunjuk ajar danNasihat
Supaya hidupSupaya hidup kita akan selamat
Selamat berhujung minggu semua..till then darl..!!!muah!!

Persediaan Breast feeding Di Bulan Puasa

Mummies!!!

Ramadhan bakal menjelma...Kite sebagai mommies yang nak berpuasa dan breastfeeding mesti akan berfikir "aish macam manalah nak express breast milk di bulan Puasa, cukup ke tidak kuantiti susu,bulehke kita menahan cabaran dahaga sewaktu menyusu...macam-macam lagi la.



Sempena ramadhan yang mulia i harap'my other friend tu tak mai la"as tingin nak pose penuh sebulan.last ramadhan i tak pose penuh..time tu pregnantkan azryl...

So ni i nak share tips yang i dapat dari ajasu (my breastpumpshop).I beli Cik freestyle from dia la..

Dia cakap...3-3 anaknya menyusu time bulan ramadhan..so far tak ade masalah yang penting sila
1.Makan nasi,makanan seimbang ye
2.Minum air sepanjang malam
3.Sahur wajib makan nasi ye
4.makan kurma and minum susu.

Kurma dikatakan dapat membantu menambahkan susu badan.

Insyallah pump la macam selalu sewaktu bekerja...kuantiti yang kita dapat sama macam time kita tak pose.

Sentiasa fikirkan positive yer.......jangan tensi-tensi..rest cukup tau ...

(Akan kucuba praktikan la....lepas bukak pose minum air halba as usual...)

Semoga anak kita mendapat khasiat susu ibu secukupnya...amin.........

P/S:susu enfalac yang anak i selalu minum dah naik reganye...ish...ish...seb baikla dia dah cume pakai 2 kotak je sebulan.tu pun di umah baby sitter...kalu tak bakrupt mak...hehehehe

love u all.muah!!

Tahukah Anda?

Morning Peeps!!!


On my way to work as usual i will listen to the radio.Loud to the max.The reason why to boost my energy level up high.Since jadik mum ni tak cukup tido adalah perkara biasa .Nevertheless i am happy. ngeeheheheheh.

Thats not the point, the thing i wanna share is that Dr fadilah khamsah kata, ada satu kajian dijalankan , menunjukkan bahawa lelaki lebih sengsara jika ptus kasih dengan seorang wanita.Ini kerana mengikut nisbah 3:1 lelaki yang bunuh diri akibat putus cinta.3 lelaki yang bunuh diri akan ade sorang wanita yang bunuh diri?hohohooohoho...benarkah?

Based on experienced , perempuan kalu putus cinta, sampai menonggeng la...mata bengkak tak usah cakap...tu kompom bengkak..Tapi lelaki?yang always macho and egoistic type?ermmmmm

think about it....... :)

till next entry peeps ...ciou..................................... :)

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Clifford the Big Red Dog

Usually , Azryl woke up at 5 a.m every morning.Since he knew his mummy will off to work at 6 a.m.In order to make him occupied i always let him watch Chanel 613 ,Playhouse DisneyChannel.


Hehehehe.One of the show that caught his Attention is Clifford the big red dog.Since he can roll his body ,whenever he listen to the Clifford song he will quickly do the air bone or air bon(dunno which spelling is correct)and make excited face.He will stay quietly on his tilam terbang and drooling madly while watching the show.


He loves the striking red color of the clifford. :)


Cliffords friends also very cute........
So Clifford really make my morning easy and smooth withouht azryl tantrum.He smile untill i off to work.That the saddest part. :(


GAmbar 'Panas' Luna Dan Ariel

OMG!!!!!


Apa nak jadi ngan dunia sekrang ni...Why Man always manupulate woman????..............


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Heheheehehehehe...yes laugh peepss!!!!!laugh out loud!!!!hope this joke will make your day wokeh??okie dokie ciou!!





The Wise Octopus

Waka Waka THis time is Africa !!!!

For the first time Spain is going to Final!!!!I am not a football maniac but i like to watch couple of the game provided the game start at 10 pm.hehehehe.The most interesting topic in World Cup is the wise octopus...the name is Paul...

U see, last time Paul used to predict a lot of matches and the team the he chosed usually won!!!Just like the Spain team....

Oh Paul si Sotong kurita ajaib...andai kata ko buleh predict wether my company going to give increament or not this year kan best???????heheheheheh

Nevertheless the game must continue to go on as Germany must face the Uruguay team for the tird and Fourth place this weekend.

I will just watch the replay game only.hehehehe.


Till then peeps.. muah ..ariba ariba!!!

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Teka-teki , teka tekuk

Morning Peeps!!!

Yesterday, i went off to lunch at Tupai-tupai restaurant with my officemate.On the way heading to the restaurant, one of them gave us one teka teki......the teka-teki was given by his son ...heheheh

here is the teka teki....


"Apa Binatang yang siangnyer dia mati, Malam nyer dia hidup?"
I was amaze with that questions.U know, My mind was so dirty...........dush dush , dush.hehehehe
I am sorry but the first thing that was on my mind was....erm that...if u know what i meant.Married people should know.hahahahahahaha
But since this question was brought up by a young kid..surely that will definately not a dirty answer.
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hehehehe...Come to think about it, yeah its true..siang ikan matilah dia.hehehe.Malam kalu ikan itu tidak selamat disiang, malam dia hidupla....
okie dokie peeps..till then..love u olls.Hope this joke will make your day... :)

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Amalan Berpantang Dulu Dan Sekarang....

Helo peepss...

Before azryl was born, i dengan begitu gigih meng -google internet in terms of postpartum care.Tak kisah la secara tradisional or modern.Pesanan orang tua-tua kadang-kadang ade bernas nyer juga walaupun u might think "oh no, its totally absurb"
For example kan...sila pakai stocking setiap masa , setiap saat, dimana jua anda berada...
I mengelat bab ni.Cuaca di KL last februari ...ya tuhan panas betui.Rumah batu, berkuam, haba stranded in da house,berstoking tu kompomla makcik tak pakai.dah la kena makan semua benda yang panas-panas..hohoho........

Okla..since i ceaserean.....jadi amalan pantang tradisional yang biasa tu hanya 20% jer i amalkan
iaitu:
1.makan nasi panas-panas
2.bertungku (badan, lengan, kaki sahaja)
3.urut(bengkak susu punya hal-jadi sekitar upper body towards ma sisters and kaki)
4.minum pati ikan haruan(total botol yang i telah telan ialah 24 botol...anyone can bit me?heheh)
5.Jamu(nona roguy pytonatal(i recommend 100% as its really smooth your bowel ..tak perlu teran lebih).Futhermore ia tak effect u walaupun u breastfeed your baby.

I tak makan halia dan lada hitam yang banyak as my baby diarrhea.I also tak sukat air yang i minum as i mentioned before cuaca panas.Minum air macam biasa cuma jangan mengejut and telan senafas.ambil sikit-sikit.Sayur, silalah makan , penting untuk your bowel jugak.kena ada zat yang cukup maklumla lepas beranak, badan kita lesu, hilang banyak darahkan.hehehehe.
Bengkung?hohoho...pesakit ceaserean manalah buleh pakai bengkung.Ditakuti akan effect tempat luke tu.Jadi saya cume pakai corset selepas sebulan saya melahirkan azryl.

I tak tahu experienced orang lain tapi bg i bila i nak bersinkena cover sikit.batuk pun sama.Sebabnya?terasa seperti pisau menyucuk di tempat jahitan....

Selain itu i pun tak pakai param dan pilis.I juga jarang letak minyak urut herba..cume malam jer i letak....

Kesimpulannya terpulang pada setiap individu itu sendiri.Asal makan makan berkhasiat, pantang minum ais..itu pun dah ok...

Tepuk dada tanya selera..hehehe :)

Breast feed Update

hoho, i luv this topic..tho i am not fully breast feed azryl 100% but still i insists to give him breast milk.





Semenjak kehadiran cik free style, my breast feeding journey smooth a bit tho takla semasyuk ibu-ibu menyusu yang lain.





Kalu dulu whenever i pump cume dapat 2.5-3 oz now dah 4-6 oz....each pumping session.





I only pump twice during working hours.Bila balik jer azryl on my boobies 100% sampaila ke pagi.Dia memang reject botol .Tapi ngan baby sitter ok plak dia minum.huhuhuhu.





Ok lah here is the picas that i snap during my pumping session which was on 10.30 this morning.hehehehe.





(Since di opis la ni kerja agak kurang walupun berlambak, buleh la update kerap, kalu banyak kerja hmmmm berhabuk jugakla blog nih. :) )




Pictures that Always Made My Day

Azryl in Many Faces.................................................................




Mata yang membuntang beso....nyeee....baru bangun tito






Age: 3 Months Old ++++









Seb Baik tak masuk Lalat yang oiii.......kusyuknyer tido....


Muka baru bangun tido.......bulatnye anak teruna mummy yang sorang ni





Hush-hush darling, ma prince aka super elo is sleeping.........................





Look Mummy i am a rock star!!See i can pose in front of the camera...tho u never teach me how to pose!!heheheh



Mummy i can rolled my self now.The date is 14 june 2010




Look mummy i can support my chubby arms now.I am 4 moths pluss now.If U look closer u can see my tiny teeth coming up.....hehehehe





Hi mummy......





Guguli bang bang...After shower time wif mummy.Managed to sok her really wet..I loike it so much!!



One of my favourite activities is palying with my chubby toes mummy....



On the go wif mummy....weeeee

Last but not least, this is the most expensive picas..He laugh out loud.Muah Love u prince!!!!

Monday, July 5, 2010

When Should i start solid food for baby? Part 2

You can introduce solids any time between 4 and 6 months if your baby is ready. Until then, breast milk or formula provides all the calories and nourishment your baby needs and can handle. His digestive system simply isn't ready for solids until he nears his half-birthday.


How will I know when my baby's ready?
Your baby will give you clear signs when he's ready to move beyond liquid-only nourishment. Cues to look for include:



  • Head control. Your baby needs to be able to keep his head in a steady, upright position.

  • Losing the "extrusion reflex." To keep solid food in his mouth and then swallow it, your baby needs to stop using his tongue to push food out of his mouth.

  • Sitting well when supported. Even if he's not quite ready for a highchair, your baby needs to be able to sit upright to swallow well.

  • Chewing motions. Your baby's mouth and tongue develop in sync with his digestive system. To start solids, he should be able to move food to the back of his mouth and swallow. As he learns to swallow efficiently, you may notice less drooling — though if your baby's teething, you might still see a lot of drool.

  • Significant weight gain. Most babies are ready to eat solids when they've doubled their birth weight (or weigh about 15 pounds) and are at least 4 months old.

  • Growing appetite. He seems hungry — even with eight to ten feedings of breast milk or formula a day.

  • Curiosity about what you're eating. Your baby may begin eyeing your bowl of rice or reaching for a forkful of fettuccine as it travels from your plate to your mouth.

How should I introduce solid food?
A good rule of thumb is to start with rice cereal, which is gluten-free and less allergenic than other foods. First, nurse or bottle-feed your baby. Then give him one or two teaspoons of dry cereal mixed with enough formula or breast milk to make a semi-liquid. Use a soft-tipped plastic spoon when you feed your baby, to avoid injuring his gums. Start with just a small amount of cereal on the tip of the spoon.If your baby doesn't seem very interested in eating off the spoon, let him smell and taste the cereal or wait until he warms up to the idea of eating something solid. Don't add solid food to your baby's bottle or he may not make the connection that food is to be eaten sitting up and from a spoon.Begin with a once-a-day feeding, whenever it's convenient for you and your baby, but not at a time when your baby seems tired or cranky. Your baby may not eat much in the beginning, but give him time to get used to the experience. Some babies need practice keeping food in their mouths and swallowing.Once he gets used to his new diet, he'll be ready for a few tablespoons of cereal a day. As the amount he eats increases, gradually thicken the consistency of the cereal and add another feeding.



How will I know when my baby's full?
Your baby's appetite will vary from one feeding to the next, so a strict accounting of the amount he's eaten isn't a reliable way to tell when he's had enough. If your baby leans back in his chair, turns his head away from food, starts playing with the spoon, or refuses to open up for the next bite, he has probably had enough. (Sometimes a baby will keep his mouth closed because he hasn't yet finished with the first mouthful, so be sure to give him time to swallow.)



Do I still need to give my baby breast milk or formula?
Yes, your baby will need breast milk or formula until he's a year old. Both provide important vitamins, iron, and protein in an easy-to-digest form. Solid food can't replace all the nutrients that breast milk or formula provides during that first year. See how much breast milk or formula babies need after starting solids.



How should I introduce other solid food?
Introduce other solids gradually, one at a time, waiting at least three days after each new food. This way you'll get a heads-up if your baby has an allergic reaction to one of them (signs of an allergy may include diarrhea, a bloated tummy, increased gas, or a rash). If there's a family history of allergies, or your baby develops an allergic reaction during this process, start waiting up to a week between new foods.Even though it's a good idea to get your baby accustomed to eating a wide variety of foods, it'll take time for him to get used to each new taste and texture. Each baby will have unique food preferences, but the transition should go something like this:


1. Semi-liquid cereals


2. Strained or mashed fruits and vegetables


3. Finely chopped table foods, including meat and other protein sourcesWhen your baby has mastered cereal, offer a few tablespoons of vegetables or fruit in the same meal as a cereal feeding. Good foods to start with include sweet potatoes, squash, applesauce, bananas, carrots, oatmeal, peaches, and pears. All food should be strained or mushy — at this stage your baby will press the food against the top of his mouth and then swallow.If you're feeding your baby from ready-to-eat jars of baby food, scoop some into a little dish and feed him from that. If you dip his feeding spoon into the jar, you won't be able to save the leftovers because you'll have introduced bacteria from his mouth into the jar. Also, throw away any baby food jars within a day or two of opening them.Some experts recommend introducing yellow fruits and vegetables first because they're easiest to digest, but others advise going green from the start so your baby doesn't develop a preference for the sweeter taste of the yellow foods. It's up to you which route to take. Either way, don't leave any food off his menu simply because you don't like it. And stay away from foods that might cause him to choke.If your baby turns away from a particular food, don't push. Try again in a week or so. He may never like sweet potatoes, or he may change his mind several times and end up loving them.Don't be surprised if your baby's stools change color and odor when you add solids to his diet. If your baby has been exclusively breastfed up to this point, you'll probably notice a strong odor to his formerly sweet-smelling stools as soon as he starts eating even tiny amounts of solids. This is normal. If his stools seem too firm (rice cereal, bananas, and applesauce can contribute to constipation), switch to other fruits and vegetables and oatmeal or barley cereal.



How many times a day should my baby be eating solid food?
At first he'll eat semi-liquid cereal mix just once a day. By around 8 months he should be eating solid food three times a day. A typical day's diet at 8 months might include a combination of:• Breast milk or iron-fortified formula• Iron-fortified cereal• Yellow and green vegetables• Fruit• Small amounts of protein such as poultry, cottage cheese, tofu, and meatThere are certain foods that you shouldn't give your baby yet. Honey, for example, can cause botulism in babies under a year old. For more details, see "Foods That Can Be Unsafe for Your Baby."



Do I need any special equipment?
It's helpful to have a highchair, plastic spoons to protect your baby's sensitive gums, bibs, and plastic dishes and bowls. A splat mat on the floor can help keep messes to a minimum. You may also want to introduce your baby to a sippy cup soon after you start solids.
If you're making your own baby food, you'll need a tool to puree the food, like a blender, food processor, or baby food grinder. You'll also want to have storage containers for refrigerating and freezing extra portions. (Some parents use ice-cube trays — or similar devices made just for baby food — to store and freeze individual portions.)



Where should I feed my baby?
You'll want a sturdy, stable, comfy place for him to sit, at a convenient height for you. To start out, that might be a bouncy seat or even a car seat. (Just make sure that he's upright enough to swallow well.) Once he can sit up by himself, though, a highchair at the table is your best bet. Your baby will be able to participate in family meals, and you'll be able to eat your own meal and feed him at the same time. It'll also be easier to clean up after he chows down.



How can I help my child develop healthy eating habits?




There u go peeps, a little info from baby center.com. It's helps me a lot when i wanted to give semi solid food for ma prince.So Mummies , u should do a plenty of surveys and seek for profesional opinions before starting to give solid for your love one.huhuhuhu.



Till then...... love u. :)

26.01.2006

Hi peeps.....

This entry is about my marriage journey for the past four years.Bukan hendak membuka pekung didada, mahupun mendabik dada diatas apa yang ku telah lalui selama 4 tahun ini, tapi untuk dijadikan iktibar dan panduan bagi golongan muda di luar sana jika hendak membina rumahtangga.Entry ini juga khas untuk anakku azryl .Moga sayang jadikan pedoman pabila dewasa kelak.

Seprti yang telah sedia maklum...seluruh rakan uni ku tahu bahawa aku bercinta bersama dengan seorang pemandu bas di tempat ku belajar dahulu.Percintaanku ditentang hebat oleh kedua org tuaku sendiri bahkan di tempat ku belajar juga aku dipandang serong.Kerana?

1.Dia suami org.

2.Dia berumur .Perbezaan kami lebih kurang 15 tahun jaraknya.

3.Taraf pendidikan yang jauh lebih rendah dariku.


3 faktor utama yang menyebabkan aku di 'mark' sebagai pelajar bermasalah, anak bermasalah.Akibatnya?

"Nasi lemak buah bidara,
dimakan dengan gulai ikan,
buang emak, buang saudara.
kerana cinta kuturutkan".

Kedua ibu bapaku sangat murka diatas kelakuanku itu,tapi kupekakkan telinga, ku turutkan rasa dan firasat hati.Entah mengapa hati ku kuat mengatakan jodoh aku dan suamiku sekarang amat kuat.Di sebabkan tindakan aku yang sedemikian rupa, maka bermulah episod drama tyang amat tragis dan sedih.Bapaku mengambil keputusan untuk membuangku jauh jauh.Dia juga telah telefon di universituku supaya berhentikan aku dari terus belajar.Kebetulan sewaktu itu aku masih melakukan latihan industri.Pengarah ditempat ku belajar itu pun mengambil keputusan untuk membuangku dari menruskan latihan ku disana.Perasaan?Pedih yang amat pedih.Hanya tuhan saja yang tahu perasaan ku dikala itu.Aku mempertaruhkan masa depanku untuk bersama dengan org yang ku fikir boleh menjagaku sehingga akhir hayat.

Namun begitu,Tuhan masih sayangkan ku.Di buka kan hati Dekan ku untuk berunding dengan bapaku supaya membiarkan aku terus belajar.Dia sendiri memantauku didalam pelajaran.Yang anehnya...aku gembira didalam duka.Gembira kerana , bapaku tidak lagi mengongkongku.Duka?Ku kira, ku ini anak durhaka namun tidak terlintas olehku untuk menjadi sedemikian rupa.Bagiku aku tidak mempunyai apa-apa kesalahan kerana bercinta dengan suamiku sekrang.Pandangan masyarakat membuatkan kami dipandang serong.Akibat dari tindakan bapaku,
" Kami berkahwin secara senyap di Thailand"
Now , ingin ku ingatkan disini, ini ialah option terakhir jikalau mati kutu tidak ada pilihan lain.Dan anda perlu bertangungkjawab diatas segala tindakan anda.Jangan salahkan sesiapa jika perkahwinan anda tidak berjaya kerana ini jalan yang anda pilih.

Sepertiku tarikh 26.01.2006 ialah tarikh keramat bagiku.Ku masih ingat lagi, hari itu hari khamis.Aku masih menjalani latihan praktikal tapi keputusan yang aku ambil untuk berkahwin telah aku fikir sedalamnya.Since my family already discard me from them, i was left alone.By marrying m husband i felt secured.Since i faced a lot sexual harassment during my practical session, my husband decided to marry me.His first marriage?well its over.
Dari pandangan mata kasar, orang akan mengatakan aku perempuan murahan....tapi ku percaya pada ketentuan, dan jodoh.Tidak terlintas olehku langsung untuk mengambil hak orang apatah lagi mengahwininya.

Perkahwinan ini lebih kepada, saling memperbaiki kelemahan masing-masing.Suamiku telah bertukar menjadi seorang penyabar, dia rajin mengerjakan solat, dan rajin menziarahi pusara kedua ibu-bapanya.


Banyak sungguh perubahan keatas dirinya.tiada lagi sikap panas baran...dan aku?telah bertukar menjadi seoarang yang lebih kental menharungi segala dugaan dan cabaran.

Berbalik kepada hari khamis itu.....

SEbelum kami mengambil keputusan berkahwin, suamiku telah merujuk di jabatan agama perlis, bagaimana hendak berkahwin dengan ku.Pegawai sana mengatakan boleh berkahwin di perlis dengan syarat mereka akan menghantar surat kepada wali yakni bapaku sebnyk tiga kali.Jikalau bapaku gagal menghadirkan diri ,kami buleh berkahwin tanpa wali, dengan menggunakan wali hakim.Namun bapaku tidak setuju untuk menjadi wali lalu jatuh kepada adik lelakiku.Since adik lelaki ku belum baligh lagi, maka dia tidak boleh menjadi wali.

Disebabkan suasana panas sewaktu itu, dimana bapaku masih lagi menyerangku tidak berhenti henti maka sebab itu kami berkahwin di Thailand...aku pasrah...kosong dan entahla...perasaanku bercampur baur.........

Pada jam 2 ptg selamat aku menjadi isteri kepada suamiku sekarang,Aku bersujud syukur didalam kesedihan, dan suamiku berkata kepadaku"Abang tahu , sepatutnya sayang bersanding diatas pelamin, dihias umpama puteri, berarak bersama paluan kompang, tapi abang tak mampu,abang hanya boleh berikan hati dan kasih sayang ....harap syang sudi menjadi isteri abang sehingga akhir hayat"..Berhamburan air mataku jatuh ketika itu...
Aku hanya mengangguk.Dalam hati ku tak putus putus berdoa sehinggalah sekarang agar jodoh kami panjang dan hubungan kami tetap utuh walau terpisah beribu batu.......

Disebabkan kami tidak menpunyai cukup duit untuk membayar denda kerana bernikah diluar negara, dan aku sewaktu itu baru menamatkan pelajaran ku, kami menangguhkan sehingga tahun lepas, dimana akhirnya kami telah mendaftar perkahwinan kami di pejabat agama di MALAYSIA.
Ya, kawan kawan, ku berjaya menamatkan pelajaranku dan mempunyai kerja yang elok.Dan Aku juga telah kembali kepada kedua ibu bapaku..setelah sekian lama.Sepanjang perkahwinan kami, kami tidak menyusahkan sesiapa, susah senag kami harungi berdua.\ tanpa minta simpati sesiapa.Dengan kehadiran Azryl, menyebabkan hubungan ku dengan kedua ibu bapaku kembali jernih.Walaupun ku tahu disudut hati kecil mereka, mereka tidak menyukai suamiku namun mereka cube menerima hakikat yang aku kini milik orang.

Kepada Azryl, suatu hari nanti kamu akan belajar mencintai seseorang...dan mengahwini seseorang, nasihat mummy kepadamu syang, bawalah mummy berjumpa dengannya, kita berbincang dari hati ke hati,mummy tak mahu kamu mengulangi apa yang mummy telah lalui....
Kepada saudaraku diluar sana , ini ialah perjudian hidup yang tiada kompromi.Sebelum melakukan sesuatu, kamu mesti ingat tiada istilah berundur atau dan perlu bertanggungjawab diatas setiap perbuatanmu.Buktikan yang kamu mampu buat.Jangan ditengah jalan pabila ada ujian melanda kamu angkat kaki...

Sebagai ibu bapa mereka hanya inginkan yang terbaik, yang nereka tidak mahu melihat anak mereka kembali kepada meraka menangis setelah berkahwin mengejut ....si suami pula lepas tangan meninggalkan isteri terkontang kanting..tanpa hala tuju.Pelajaran harus diutamakan.Jangan kerana ada masalah sejemput ,kamu tidak mahu belajar .Pelajaran adalah tiket masa depanmu.Usah sia-siakan.Sentiasa merendah diri , dan jangan ade hasad dengki di dalam dirmu nescaya TUHAN akan sentiasa bersamamu.

Semoga kisahku dijadikan iktibar dan pedoman......wallauhalam..... :)